I had with my third person didn’t work either

When you are creating your “vision board” or your “wish wall” or whatever name you have given your particular visual motivator, what are you really thinking about? What things do you conjure up in your mind to really pandora charm sale motivate you deep down in your soul? I would bet next week’s paycheck, (oh, that’s right, I don’t work for anyone else), ninety percent of people including yourself, utilize tangible objects more often than not. The personal cars, the personal mansions, the personal riches perhaps may be utilized. The things that motivate one person can be so stark different from another that it truly boggles the mind. And these two individuals can be of the same race, age group, religious background, sex, neighborhood, or possibly even the same blood family. Our motivators truly are defined by our life experiences, wouldn’t you say? Give that one some deep thought. Rarely are personal motivations about things that we can touch, feel or ride in. You will realize more times than not, motivators are much more personal than that. I remember many years ago, I was still married to my first wife, and my youngest son had not been born yet. We were actually living in an apartment at the time and my first son was 5 or 6 years old, and highly impressionable as all children pandora charms cheap at that age, especially a son that’s watching Dad’s every move. Now, I had been smoking since I was 15 yrs old, a terrible habit and addiction I picked up from friends to be cool and fit in back in the day. I had terrible allergy problems and stomach issues since I was about 12. Of course the nicotine just exacerbated those problems, but nevertheless, I continued with the addiction. Of course my wife was a smoker also, because rarely are non-smokers and smokers married for life, it just isn’t the norm or practical for that matter. We were certainly not wealthy at the time, so we struggled like many other young couples to make the bills, but that didn’t stop us either. We had always wanted to quit. We truly hated it…the expense, the rotten smell of our clothing, our hair, our breath, our cars, not to mention that we were killing ourselves slowly. We had tried and tried and tried to quit this nasty habit or addiction as it really has become known. We had even quit once for just over 2 yrs, but one night out with friends, we had a beer and we said “hey, we’ve beat this addiction, surely we can have just one or two while we’re out having some fun.” That my friend is a powerful addiction…we started back the next day. Our quest to get this horrible pandora bracelets uk off our back had spread over so many years and so many failed attempts, it was simply sickening. At one point, I remember battling with my conscience, and thinking, “David, how weak are you man”? “Can you not find a way to stop”? “This is killing you and will be killing your family very soon”! Those bouts I had with my third person didn’t work either, trying to shame myself into quitting…please! I had tried the doctor prescribed nicotine gums, the patches, even the subliminal cassette tapes. And for those of you that don’t know what a cassette tape is, stop reading this article immediately, it’s for mature audiences only. Seriously folks, if it was available, my wife and I had tried it, but to no avail. It was killing us literally. I even had a special lung test which measured lung capacity and ability and I already had 15% that I would never be able to get back, even if I had quit the day I found out. And then it happened.

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